Yeah, that’s right. After months of not blogging, this is what I am blogging about and I’ll tell you why. I recently got this procedure done (all is well and I feel fine) and have wanted to blog about it as I feel it is an interesting subject that is probably too often NOT talked about. When in conversation with other Daddy dudes, if it has come up, said dudes shy away from even using the V word. I get it, sort of. Few people want to talk about surgery and very few dudes want to talk about anything slightly uncomfortable concerning the naughty bits. Those are your boyz and that area can be quite a source for both physical and emotional discomfort. However, what I don’t get is not sacking up so to speak, and taking responsibility for your own actions in your relationship with your lady friend.
Why should it be my wife’s responsibility to not only have periods, BE pregnant, birth two kids, and then take nasty birth control with horrid side effects or an IUD? Condoms I barely mention because they flat out suck. Abstinence is silly. Having tons of kids due to zero family planning and control is irresponsible no matter what your religious beliefs are. It just is. It might be what others think is the right way and that is fine, but it does not make it any less irresponsible.
The alternative? I go have a 20 minute operation, ice my boys for a day, and have a lifetime of not ever having to even think about it again. Everybody wins in my book! No more babies, no more hassle for the wife, no more expenses, and potential for having MORE SEX than before because now it is a non-issue!
Male friendses. Don’t be skerred. It will be ok. It is as chivalrous as you can be. It will not lessen your masculinity or “mojo”. Personally, I think it is a testament to your manhood to do it. I have so much confidence in my own mojo that I feel I can do this with zero negative effect. Like I said, it may in fact lead to more interest from the wife. So she claims at least!
Vasectomies!!!! Git er done and live free!
Quote from yesterday… Nurse: Just breathe and find a happy place.
Me: Yeah, the problem is that you are operating ON my happy place.
Thanks for allowing me to be so publicly honest and blunt people! Have a great weekend!
PS: I really did get it done on Hannah’s birthday. It was too funny to pass it up.