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So I read a ton, A TON, and am always finding out new and interesting bits of information. I am creating the POI Pond category here to pass them along. Kind of like a koi pond, but full of shiny and colorful Points Of Interest. I am hoping that it will have a two fold effect; to help me remember said facts as well as to pass them along to others!

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The first entry -“Hearsay” the hunchback.

Beginning in 1532, the French friar Francois Rabelais, began publishing a series of books that became know as the comic epic: Gargantua and Pantagruel. Looking into these books is interesting enough on its own as they were super controversial due to their obscene language, subject matter, and general love for the grotesque. they were meant as parody through the ridiculous. According to Rabelais, the philosophy of the giant Pantagruel, or “Pantagruelism”, was rooted in “a certain gaiety of mind pickled in the scorn of fortuitous things”. Awesome. However, I just stumbled across a character mentioned in the books known by the name Hearsay, whom I think is both interesting and relevant!

I am currently reading a great factual account of Magellan’s circumnavigation of the globe in the 16th century, entitled Over The Edge Of The World by Laurence Bergreen. It is in this book that this POI is mentioned.

Hearsay was a blind hunchback who ran his own school and taught all the classes. He had seven tongues, which also had seven tongues, with which to teach various truths to many people. Basically, you went to school and learned whatever Hearsay wanted to teach you, and then walked away being a brilliant scholar of said information. Students often included those fairly high up in society.

It is basically the opposite of the Greek concept of autopsis, seeing for one’s self. This was an obvious effort at parody of the popular behavior of basically believing anything as truth not only if it was fantastic, but often because it was fantastic.

Seems like a relevant parody once again with the age of internet and television and the ability to pass along so much misinformation. So many of us choosing to believe what sounds good as opposed to what is actual factually correct. Hearsay vs Autopsis. Coming to theaters near you this summer… 3D.

Recognition…

My Dad’s momma is right now entering the last leg of a very long journey here on Earth. She is the last of my grandparents. She is amongst so many loved ones and is just patiently waiting to depart. I am sad. Sadder than I thought I would be, expecting this journey for her to end fairly soon. I think I am sad due to seeing someone pass, who created sooo much. A matriarch whom would never ever use that term.

She is the mother of 12 kids that are 15 years apart. 40 or so grandkids, I lose count, and many many great grandkids. She quietly and with never a complaint ran a huge dairy farm household in Western NY, which also included looking after the hands that worked there as well. She also had a huge hand in raising several of her grandchildren.

She is devoutly Catholic and to me epitomizes what it is to be religious. She LIVES it in every breath and sees it in every aspect of her life. She passes as much good will on as she has been capable of, but never judges others for their beliefs or pushes her own beliefs onto others. Her religion is hers, it directs and permeates all aspects of her life, and that is as far as she has ever needed to take it.

A loving, quiet, patient woman. Never a complaint. Never a raised voice. Some of her first children may disagree, but that has been my observation.

I write this because it is bringing to my mind how many people get recognized for their life or their deeds and how many do not. She would never deem her life worthy of recognition. She never did anything intending or hoping for any recognition. She certainly wouldn’t be interested if it came her way.

Looking at the scope of her life and all the humans she has created, raised, assisted, or inspired is astounding. It just makes me ask the questions… Who are you recognizing for their deeds, life choices, and priorities? Do they deserve the attention? Who is not getting the respect and attention?
The folks that this world truly benefits from are often the ones you never hear of and most of them would want it that way.

On this day, I am giving my thoughts to those that go quietly unrecognized and live amazing lives. Those that make the world a better place. Those that the world will miss when we lose them. All my love to my Grandma Borer, her children, and friends. Although I cannot be there with you, I am HERE with you.

Today I am also deciding to not play my gig tonight. I am choosing to be with my close little family and take advantage of this moment. -m

In addition (after re-reading my last post), I want to add that my folks did a fantastic job of it. My point in using them as an example was that when we are IN IT as kids, we have such a different perspective. When we are IN IT as parents we have such a different perspective. Eventually our places in life and with each other change and we have a chance to either look back on things with understanding and comprehension or misunderstanding and a somewhat self centered point of view. Right NOW being the new normal does not mean forgetting about the past. It means having an understanding that everything has,is, or will change and being okay with it and letting it go. Thanks mom and dad for everything you have done and continue to do! Everything has led us to this point right now and right now is really fantastic!

This concept has been rolling around in my head and heart for a while now. I really discovered it due to the process of parenting, but have been pondering on it as it relates to life in general.

In parenting I have really found that whatever works today is of the most importance. What was working or what you want to work is mostly irrelevant. In the relationship I have with my wife, this has become our strongest asset as well. Instead of aggressively holding on to our little wants/wishes/needs and butting heads often, we tend to just steer toward whatever works best and most efficiently to make life easy and successful. This is not to say either of us give up on the things we love. We just choose to not make it a bit deal when something other than our personal “ego wishes” works better. Life is too short and precious to waste a bunch of it planting your flag on mountain tops that either turn out to be speed bumps are turn out to be irrelevant. The mountain top next door probably has a bunch of people on it laughing and enjoying a picnic.

RIGHT NOW is the new normal. Allow yesterday to simply be what it was. Adapt, change, and release the need to blame yourself or others for the things that did not go the way you wanted them to or the way you think they should have.

In a related note, when thinking about my parents and my upbringing I have recently come to a great place in my life. Part of this is due to becoming a parent and part of it is due to me just allowing enjoy the present and see things a little more as they truly are and were. It is impossible for any of us to blame things on one person or circumstance. It is easy for sure, but it is not very logical. It makes sense in ego driven logic. “I am this way because that happened.” The awesome revelation that I am finally beginning to really and truly understand is that nothing stands alone as an isolated person or event. My parents were and are who they are because of millions of factors, i.e. who their parents were, where they grew up, neighbors, friends, relatives, money, who they were as a team, etc. The list goes on forever of internal and external factors that make us who we are at any given time. AND who we are is always changing… hopefully. If I listened to myself talking 10 yrs ago what would I think now of that person? My folks loved each other, loved us, and parented in the only ways they were capable of at THAT time in all of our lives. The bottom line for me is that life right here right now, although often tough and financially strapped, is awesome. We are so blessed in the things that surround us. We are healthy, happy, in a great town, great friendships, great parents and family, a happy and healthy munchkin with another on the way.

Learning to view people and circumstances without having to judge them and/or hold things against them has been amazingly liberating as well as allowed me to really enjoy those relationships more at the present. Again, it doesn’t mean that everyone gets a free pass. There is certainly behavior which warrants being dealt with or avoided, but for the most part a little bit of compassion and understanding can help to see folks in a fuller spectrum. It does involve that hard element of taking the ego out of the equation; that whiny inner voice that needs to blame others for your present. That voice that won’t allow yesterday to wash away. The voice that can’t let others be who they are without comparing them to what I want, how I behave, how I think it should be done.

RIGHT NOW is the new normal. What worked yesterday may not work today. What happened yesterday is not happening NOW. Who I or others were yesterday is not who we are NOW. My greatest personal inner hope is that every day in every way I can keep changing to become the best version of myself possible. It will take a lifetime if not longer, but it does make every day a bit easier, every day a bit fuller, and every relationship a bit deeper.

BLOG DISCLAIMER: Often this is my stream of consciousness rambling here. I tend to right as if I were talking to “you”, whoever that may be. In reality I am mostly talking to or about myself when I refer to “you”. I am the last to be “preachy” as I am acutely aware of my own struggles, faults, and failings along my path to “get it right” in this life. -mb

A Mighty Wind

Saturday Night 7:00-9:00 –Jazz, Folk, Latin, and more!

New World Deli
4101 Guadalupe St · Austin, Texas · 78751

Good food. Good music. Good peeps of all ages! Hope to see some of y’all there!

Hello all and Happy Holiday Season! Have a good look at this pic…. I have a story to tell.

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On Mothers Day of 2006, Hannah and I had our first date at Enchanted Rock. We went out for an afternoon of rock climbing and got stuck in a big ol’ Texas rainstorm. We were forced to play in the rain and then make out on a picnic table. Not a bad afternoon. Her family joined later with wine, cheese, and smoked salmon for a Mothers Day picnic. We finished off the day sitting on the Rock and watching the sunset. Not only was this an amazing day, but it was the most important day of my adult life for so many reasons. It led to our life together, to meeting a wonderful new family in the Floyds and extended, and has now led to us making more of… well, us!

In 2006 there were two people on that picnic table. In 2012… there were FOUR! Yes!

We just came back from a doctor visit and we can now proudly and publicly say that we are having Thing 2! 7.5 centimeters long and kicking away, our little Nemo is coming along swell. Hannah is doing well, besides feeling like barfing 24 hours a day, and I am stuck between total excitement and “OH SHIT, what were we thinking?” Lottie is also excited, she just doesn’t know why yet. Lottie has about five teeth now and several others moving. She is officially a crawler, says “mama” a lot (which we are working on associating with Hannah), and has learned to clap!!

Have a great holiday and new year. We will keep you all posted! Thanks to family and friends who have inspired us in this endeavor as well as helped in so many ways.

Tis the season… for really wacky schedules? Pretty much. Hope this finds you all fantastic and excited for the Holidays Season. Stay safe, eat and shop with at least a modicum of self restraint, and enjoy your friends and family’s! My folks will be in town for about 10 days which is very exciting AS well as giving us a night out or two with grandparent baby sitting! Here is a look at my teaching schedule during Christmas and New Years! I am also adding the tag “nude” in here to find out how many people will google nude yoga…. heehee. Next sneaky tag? Hmmm, maybe boobs, Bieber, free cash? Very funny to see what people search for and accidentally find a blog!

I WILL be teaching on Thursday the 27th and Saturday the 29th. NOT teaching on 25th, 26th, and the 1st.

Here is a look at the Castle Hill schedule so you can still go get your groove on!

HOLIDAY HOURS:
Mon, Dec 24th – 5:30am-2pm
CHRISTMAS – Tues, Dec 25th – CLOSED
Wed, Dec 26th – 8am-7pm

Mon, Dec 31st – 5:30am-5pm
NEW YEAR’S DAY – Tues, Jan 1st – 8am – 7pm

CLASSES STILL OFFERED:
Monday, December 24th
6:30am – Mysore with Juan
10am – Plyo Burn with Amid
Noon – Cardio Kickbox with Robert

Tuesday, December 25th
NO CLASSES

Wednesday, December 26th
Noon – Barre with Hilary
Noon – Fast Track Pilates with Deborah
4:45pm – Beginner Yoga with Dido

Monday, December 31st
10am – Plyo Burn with Amid
Noon – Cardio Kickbox with Robert

Tuesday, January 1st
10am – Barre with Hilary
Noon – Vinyasa Lunch with Anne Haskett?
Noon – Back to Basics with Robert?
Noon – Intermediate Pilates with Desi?
12:15pm – Cycle Strength and Abs with David?
5pm – Iyengar Yoga with Gillian?
5:30pm – Hatha Yoga with Paula?
6pm – Target Toning with Hilary

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